Sir Luke


His victor

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Sir Luke and his victor enact their Master/slave dynamic with a consensual nonconsent structure. They have discovered divine purpose in their exploration of leathersex, sacred S&M, and elevated service. When victor’s petition reached Sir Luke's hands in 2013, they took a leap of faith together, overcoming fear and shame, and have built the most intense, passionate expression of love and authenticity they've known ever since. Their blood is shared on the collar victor now wears permanently.

They have presented internationally on eroticism in leather care, deepening devotion and surrender, and the healing aspects of structured lifestyles. As a second-generation Leatherman, Sir Luke has a strong connection to Leather history and strives to carry his uncle's legacy by building a brighter future for the queer Leather community. slave victor is a devoted slave who speaks against the stigmas surrounding mental health, expression of gender, and fragility in slavery. Together, they stand behind the phrase, "Be authentically you."

Sir Luke and his victor are the Southeast Master/slave 2019 and Florida Power Exchange 2016/2017. Sir Luke currently serves on the board for the Leather Leadership Conference. When they're not doing work in the community, they enjoy their home sanctuary, where victor can sit at Sir Luke's feet in their dungeon and they can simply exist as Master and slave.

Sir Stephan



Stephan and sweetwisteria have been in an M/s dynamic for five years exploring what power and authority exchange mean to them and how they can help teach others to explore power exchange. Together they enjoy educating on a myriad of subjects around the M/s dynamic, service, formal dining, etiquette, and many other subjects. They also live in a poly household with six adults, two cats and a dog, adding to the complexity of their M/s and service to both a person and a house.

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Lilah Rose (she/her) is best encapsulated as a sapiosexual, polyamorous, masochistic switch with a fetish for educating and further corrupting the not-so-innocent.  A strong advocate for building a safer, sexier community her classes focus on mental wellness, consent, communication, coping and bottoming skills. She is always interested in sexy experiments for  science, especially if they involve rope, impact, needles, or psychological spelunking. When she’s not teaching she is a professional fetish model and performer, sex work activist and an avid crafter and equestrian.


Sir Vice

Sir Vice is an active supporting member of the BDSM community with 12+ years’ experience in the lifestyle. He offers lifestyle education through his website, LimitsUnleashed.com.  Sir Vice has presented at a variety of public speaking forums and events ranging from training classes and trade shows to top executives at Fortune 500 businesses. His seasoned experience allows him to successfully engage his audience – delivering classes effectively, consistently, with enthusiasm and patience.  A strong proponent of responsible and consensual exploration, Sir Vice participates regularly with organizations such as TES, MAsT, NELA, NCSF, and many others to speak on various lifestyle topics.  In his personal time he enjoys practicing martial arts, hiking, playing music, gaming, and furthering his study of psychology, behaviorism, physiology, and a variety of eccentric subjects.



soumise's lifelong passions for movement, education, and helping people are evident in her presentations. A former professional ballet dancer turned world ranked international style ballroom competitor, she has spent her 30+ year career blending the artistry of dance with the sciences of biomechanics, anatomy, kinesiology, rehabilitation and exercise. Her Master encourages and supports the integration of her professional interests into the BDSM lifestyle. soumise presents diverse workshops and educational events that engage, inform, and entertain participants of all levels in a variety of subjects. She holds certifications in a wide variety of movement and somatic modalities and will usually think to ask "do you really want to know" before she totally geeks out in her answers to questions in these areas. Her time is divided between working with her clients and students, training instructors and helping her Master, Sir Vice, with Limits Unleashed LLC. She also enjoys turning cocktails into cupcakes for the SSASE NJ munch and making lifestyle friendly clothing and accessories for her Etsy store, ViceDeSoumise1.

Master Jim
Master Jim and his slave dee married out of college and have been exploring kink ever since. They entered the lifestyle ~10 yrs ago & attended their first event after another 5. He is currently Asst Director of MAsT MASS. In his spare time Master Jim can be found playing pinball and making espresso.

dee is in a monogamous relationship with Master Jim. A member of MAsT MASS, she makes the empty nest phase sweeter by diving deeper into her dynamic and growing to be her more authentic self. dee, the keeper of Master Jim’s whimsy, is an avid reader & likes to crochet and sip tea.

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Orion has been an "aware" Dominant for over 25 years, and is active in the BDSM community as a writer, trainer, mentor, and facilitator.  A sensual Dominant who delights in the dance on the razor's edge of pain and pleasure, Orion has enjoyed a broad spectrum of devilish delights with enthusiastic submissives over the years.  He is particularly fond of the mind fuck, and loves to be decadently creative.  Orion’s energy is now devoted to his loving submissive solate, his teaching, and crafting custom implements.  His teaching credits include private retreats, the Winter Flea, Kinky Con, Bound in Boston, and The Society.



I am ThePhenix, the mythical bird reborn out of the ashes of hell whose tears have the power to heal. I have been in the lifestyle 10 years. In that time, I have met some very great people and friends. Mostly I get to be myself, enjoy life, and explore new experiences. I am very involved in my local community attending munches, events, and clubs. I am an active member of our local MAsT chapter and submissive forum. I identify as a masochistic submissive.

Mistress Sky

Mistress Sky is a lifestyle domme. In her professional life, she is a relationship coach and an alternative lifestyle counselor. She has published many articles and essays on dominance/submission topics. She is the author of Unequal Partnership: a dating guide for loving non-egalitarian relationships. Mistress Sky teaches workshops and presents at many lifestyle conferences.


Skyla discovered Fetlife in 2012 while Googling, "people turned on by fear". The rest is history. Skyla identifies as a Fem Dom and Mermaid with a love for bondage and a penchant for sparkle. Armed with her sassy nature and dry sense of humor, she navigates BDSM topics of all kinds, including polyamory, rope, communication, medical play, FLR and D/s. Skyla has been bottoming for rope since 2012, and has been tying since 2013. Skyla is very involved with her kink community. After years of staffing conventions and volunteering, Skyla now produces her own convention - Tethered Together. When Skyla is not striking fear into the hearts of her bottoms, she enjoys reading, yoga, dancing with her levi wand, and iced coffee. She loves meeting new people, so please introduce yourself!


Thista Minai

Thista Minai is an educator, author, priestess, ordeal facilitator, and gleeful sadist. She uses her professional background in education to create high quality classes on a wide variety of topics, including sacred sexuality, the ordeal path, catharsis, impact, and needle play. With more than fifteen years of experience in designing and conducting rituals, Thista travels the country championing the value of spirituality and empowerment in kink and BDSM.


sudisa - I am a skilled top and domme and have been active in the local community for about five years. I got hooked on flogging at my first play party. After a few scenes, I purchased some floggers to keep in my toy bag so I could always be ready in case I found a willing top. It was on a whim during the summer of 2017 that I purchased a matched set of floggers and set out to learn Florentine flogging. Within no time I had my first flogging scene as a top! I continue to practice and love to arrange flogging scenes as often as I can. I have since developed beginner classes that were held at the local dungeon. I'm always happy to demonstrate the art of flogging with others.

House Amor

House Amor, NYC 

(Master Dante Amor, Slave Gaia Amor, Slave Sarah Amor)


All the members of House Amor share a deep passion for education and outreach. Dante and Gaia were honored to be featured presenters at the 5th Anniversary of The M/s Gathering in Wilmington, DE, and were joined by Sarah in presenting for the 2019 Master/slave Conference in VA. In addition to the two monthly meetings they facilitate in NYC, The Poly Exchange and MAsT: Metro NY, they travel together regularly offering classes and workshops at venues like The Baltimore Playhouse and MAsT chapters around the country.

Master Dante Amor

(MAsT: International, MAsT: Metro NY, The Poly Exchange)


Master Dante has been formally active in M/s for 19 years and proud owner of Slave Gaia Amor for 14, a polyamorous Master/slave relationship by design from its inception. This expanded into a full-time polyfidelitous triad when Sarah Amor joined his household, being collared in 2019 after 18 months of service.


Loquacious pusher of buttons, tipper of sacred cows, and a certified clinical hypnotherapist for over two decades. When it comes to authority-based relationships, Dante has always focused on the emotional, psychological, and interpersonal dynamics first and foremost.


A firm believer that mastery is a continual work in progress requiring ongoing self-inquiry, personal development, vulnerability, and a willingness to support others, he is currently in service to the community as:

•  Founder of The Poly Exchange

•  Co-Director of MAsT: Metro New York

•  Northeast Regional Representative for MAsT International

•  Master/slave Conference New Attendee Welcome Team Coordinator 

You can connect with him and his household on FetLife as "MasterDanteAmor" and via email at MasterDanteAmor@gmail.com

Slave Gaia Amor

(MAsT: Metro NY, The Poly Exchange, HardPink Sisterhood)


Slave Gaia first came to understand her slave heart 18 years ago in South Africa where she was born, raised, and active in the local community as both a participant and presenter. She then moved halfway around the world to serve Master Dante Amor full time in New York City who she has had the privilege of being collared to for 14 years. She possesses a deep passion for community service, an outgrowth of embracing it as her chosen family. Her dedication to loving and caring for others is one of the most natural expressions of her slavery as evidenced by her being such a shamelessly compulsive hugger. She is the Historian Chair for The HardPink Sisterhood, Secretary of MAsT: Metro New York, and proudly supports House Amor, her polyfidelitous household in all its endeavors.

Slave Sarah Amor

(MAsT: Metro NY, The Poly Exchange)


Sarah truly believes her slave heart is an orientation, not a preference. A service oriented slave, she craves structure and protocol like water and oxygen. Kinky since birth, active in the public community since 2014, in service to Master Dante since 2017, and a recent transplant to New York by way of the Deep South. Operations staff for both MAsT: Metro NY, The Poly Exchange, and a proud member of House Amor with Master Dante and Slave Gaia, her chosen family and life partners. She is currently pursuing a psychology degree with the specific intention of building acceptance, doing outreach, and providing education on kink, consensual authority differential dynamics, and polyamory. 

Sir Edgar & slave raven

Sir Edgar and Raven are a M/s couple from Northern New Jersey They have been in a monogamous 24/7 M/s dynamic for over 4 years. They are currently the 2019 North East Master/slave title holders.

Sir Edgar began his journey in the BDSM lifestyle early 1990’s in Northern Jersey and NYC. He is an educator and Graduate of MTTA.

Raven is the property of Sir Edgar. She is a Lifestyle Business owner, Educator, Advocate, Abuse Survivor, and slave. With over 20 years in the lifestyle slave raven is also a graduate MTTA Together the currently run the 4C’s Munch in Bridgewater New Jersey. They are the founders and Directors of MAsT Clifton.

Raven Kaldera is a queer FTM transgendered intersexual shaman. He is the author/editor of 40 books, including “Dear Raven and Joshua: Questions and Answers About Master/Slave Relationships”, and “Power Circuits: Polyamory In A Power Dynamic”. He and his slaveboy Joshua have been teaching and presenting workshops regularly for many years to the BDSM, Neo-Pagan, Sex/Spirituality, transgender, and other communities. Raven is the 2014 Northeast Master titleholder, and He lives with his big poly family on a homestead in Massachusetts. ’Tis an ill wind that blows no minds.


Joshua Tenpenny has been in service to Raven Kaldera since 2002. He is Raven’s devoted assistant, partner, and slave for life. Josh is also a massage therapist, Shiatsu practitioner, and yoga teacher. The 2014 Northeast Slave titleholder, he and his master Raven were chosen as the MAsT 2011 Presenters of the Year and given the 2018 Jack McGeorge Excellence in Education award. He is the author of “Real Service” and the creator of the Service Notebook. He finds spiritual fulfillment through any kind of worthy service.


If you’d like to volunteer with us: Thank you for wanting to help us bring you the best Power Exchange Dynamic Con we can. But to apply to be a volunteer you’ll still need a ticket. Our Volunteer Application is now live, please fill out the google form and we will send you an email once to confirm the volunteer schedule. 

As an event volunteer our plan is to to provide an appreciation gift bag at a dinner/event to celebrate your support after the con.

Thank you for your support!!!